Ideas are like rabbits. You get a couple and learn how to handle them, and pretty soon you have a dozen.
John SteinbeckRead
It’s all fine to say, “Time will heal everything, this too shall pass away. People will forget”—and things like that when you are not involved, but when you are there is no passage of time, people do not forget and you are in the middle of something that does not change.
Interpretation
Time may heal wounds, but the pain can feel unending when you're experiencing it.
This quote by John Steinbeck reflects on the concept that while time is often said to be a healer, those who are in distress may feel stuck in their suffering. The observation emphasizes that from an outsider's perspective, healing seems inevitable, but for the individual experiencing pain, it can seem unchanging and eternal.
In practice
During a speech at a support group, to help members realize that healing takes time.
Ideas are like rabbits. You get a couple and learn how to handle them, and pretty soon you have a dozen.
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