Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
Fine words and an insinuating appearance are seldom associated with true virtue.
Interpretation
True virtue is rarely found in mere appearances or eloquent words.
This quote by Confucius suggests that genuine goodness and moral integrity are not often accompanied by flashy speech or charming looks. Instead, true virtue lies in the substance of a person's character rather than superficial traits, reminding us to look beyond the surface when judging others.
In practice
In a discussion about morality, one might say, 'As Confucius once stated, fine words and an insinuating appearance are seldom associated with true virtue.'
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
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Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
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What ought a man be? Well, my short answer is 'himself'.
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The laws of chess do not permit a free choice: you have to move whether you like it or not.
God works powerfully, but for the most part gently and gradually.
My mission is to kill time, and time's to kill me in its turn. How comfortable one is among murderers.
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