We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
First appearance deceives many.
Interpretation
Initial impressions can be misleading.
This quote by Ovid highlights the tendency of humans to misjudge situations or individuals based solely on first appearances. It emphasizes the importance of looking beyond superficial qualities and understanding the deeper truths or realities that may not be immediately visible.
In practice
In a speech about personal growth, one might say this quote to encourage deeper understanding in relationships.
We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
All things human hang by a slender thread; and that which seemed to stand strong suddenly falls and sinks in ruins.
A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
Fas est ab hoste doceri._x000D_ One should learn even from one's enemies.
Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
The end doesn't justify the means.
Genius may conceive but patient labor must consummate.
Don't play everything (or every time); let some things go by... What you don't play can be more important than what you do.
But this wealth of information produced little or no insight.
I wish I was as sure of anything as he is of everything.
Throughout my life, I always remember that consideration of people who were less fortunate than we. We lived in an atmosphere of awareness, and we certainly did not live a life whereby we ignored, or felt that we could ignore, that which was in evidence around us.
Let's be honest; it's rather easy to be busy. We all can think up a list of tasks that will overwhelm our schedules. Some might even think that their self-worth depends on the length of their to-do list. They flood the open spaces in their time with lists of meetings and minutia - even during times of stress and fatigue.
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