Secrecy involves a tension which, at the moment of revelation, finds its release.
Georg SimmelRead
The first internal relation that is essential to a secret society is the reciprocal confidence of its members.
Interpretation
Trust and mutual confidence are fundamental for the existence of a secret society.
This quote by Georg Simmel emphasizes that the foundation of any secretive group relies heavily on the mutual trust and confidence shared among its members. Without such a bond, the secrecy and cohesion vital to the groupβs purpose would be undermined, and its function as a united entity would be compromised.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the importance of trust in teams during a leadership workshop.
Secrecy involves a tension which, at the moment of revelation, finds its release.
Secrecy is thus, so to speak, a transition stadium between being and not-being.
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If you limit yourself to sexual pleasure it's narcissistic. You don't connect with the other, you take what pleasure you want from them.
You do care a little for me, I know... but nothing to speak of, and you don't love me. I was yours once till death if you'd cared to keep me, but I'm someone else's now... and he's mine in a way that shocks you, but why don't you stop being shocked, and attend to your own happiness.
You're an interesting species, an interesting mix. You're capable of such beautiful dreams and such horrible nightmares. You feel so lost, so cut off, so alone, only you're not. See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable is each other.
We [should not] make the mistake of thinking that marriage will provide the ultimate satisfaction for which we all hunger. To assume so would be to be guilty of blasphemy. Only God satisfies the hungry heart. Marriage is but one of the channels He uses to enable us to taste how deeply satisfying His thirst-quenching grace can be.
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