Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
First there must be order and harmony within your own mind. Then this order will spread to your family, then to the community, and finally to your entire kingdom. Only then can you have peace and harmony.
Interpretation
Inner peace leads to outer harmony, starting from oneself to the broader community.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of achieving personal order and harmony as the foundation for creating a peaceful environment, extending from the individual to the family, community, and ultimately the entire kingdom. It underscores the idea that external peace and unity can only be realized when individuals cultivate a harmonious mindset within themselves.
In practice
During a team meeting, I used this quote to emphasize the importance of personal responsibility in creating a better workplace.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
We cannot reason ourselves out of our basic irrationality. All we can do is to learn the art of being irrational in a reasonable way.
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There was no such thing as perfect privacy, life was a perpetual concert-hall recital with a captive audience.
I do value my work awfully; but in reality only consider this: all this world of ours is nothing but a speck of mildew, which has grown up on a tiny planet. And for us to suppose we can have something great - ideas, work - it's all dust and ashes.
Therefore, I do not wish to consider any proposition to cede any portion of our tribal holdings to the Great Father.
If there be a God and one has never sought him, it will be small consolation to remember that one could not get proof of his existence.
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