Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
Be thou the first true merit to befriend, his praise is lost who stays till all commend.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Be the first to recognize and befriend true merit; waiting for others to give approval diminishes the value of praise.
This quote by Alexander Pope emphasizes the importance of being proactive in recognizing and supporting those who demonstrate true talent or virtue. By waiting for others to offer their commendations, you may miss the opportunity to uplift and encourage deserving individuals, thereby diluting the praise's significance. In friendship and community, being the first to acknowledge someone's strengths fosters positive relationships and encourages further excellence.
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Example use cases
In a speech recognizing outstanding contributions, one could use this quote to highlight the importance of supporting talent.
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I always preferred to hang out with the outcasts, 'cause they were cooler; they had better taste in music, for one thing, I guess because they had more time to develop one with the lack of social interaction they had!
Do not keep on with a mockery of friendship after the substance is gone - but part, while you can part friends. Bury the carcass of friendship: it is not worth embalming.
To this day, some of my closest friends say, 'Gaga, you know, everything's great. You're a singer; your dreams have come true.' But, still, when certain things are said to you over and over again as you're growing up, it stays with you and you wonder if they're true.
Good man! Genuine gentleman! God bless George Thompson, the great-hearted friend of my race.