Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
Baltasar GracianRead
Folly consists not in committing Folly, but in being incapable of concealing it. All men make mistakes, but the wise conceal the blunders they have made, while fools make them public. Reputation depends more on what is hidden than on what is seen. If you can’t be good, be careful.
Interpretation
Folly lies not in making mistakes, but in openly exposing them; wise individuals manage their reputations by concealing their errors.
This quote by Baltasar Gracian emphasizes the importance of discretion and the value of reputation. It suggests that everyone makes mistakes, but wise individuals understand the necessity of keeping their blunders private, as reputation is often more influenced by what is hidden than by what is visible. The essence of wisdom is in learning from one's errors and knowing how to manage public perception, advocating for caution over recklessness.
In practice
In a discussion about personal growth and learning from mistakes.
Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
It is a novel kind of supremacy, the best that life can offer, to have as servants by skill those who by nature are our masters.
Advice is sometimes transmitted more successfully through a joke than grave teaching.
It is better to sleep on things beforehand than lie awake about them afterwards.
Two kinds of people are good at foreseeing danger: those who have learned at their own expense, and the clever people who learn a great deal at the expense of others.
The envious die not once, but as oft as the envied win applause.
Slow but steady wins the race.
It's funny: when people always talk about the importance of role models, I used to think that was so exaggerated, but as I get older, I start to realize I don't feel that way so much anymore. If you see somebody like you who's doing something, an older version of what you are, it does make you feel like it's more possible.
If you don't have a strategy, you're part of someone else's strategy.
The desire to know is natural to good men.
One of the greatest lessons of my own life was learning to turn the inner rampage of hatred and anger toward my own father for his reprehensible behavior and abandonment of his family into an inner reaction more closely aligned with God and God-realized love.
You can't 'work through worry and fear rationally,' because fear isn't rational!
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