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Forbidden pleasures alone are loved immoderately; when lawful, they do not excite desire.
Quintilian
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People tend to crave what is forbidden more than what is allowed.

Quintilian suggests that human desire is often heightened by the allure of the forbidden. When pleasures are deemed unlawful or off-limits, they gain a certain intensity that makes them more appealing, while those pleasures that are easily accessible or permitted often lose their charm and excitement.

Themes

DesireForbiddenPleasureTemptationLawful

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about the nature of desire, illustrating how what we can't have seems more attractive.

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