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I got a fortune cookie that said, "To remember is to understand." I have never forgotten it. A good judge remembers what it was like to be a lawyer. A good editor remembers being a writer. A good parent remembers what it was like to be a child.
Anna Quindlen
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Remembering past experiences helps foster empathy and understanding.

This quote emphasizes the importance of memory in understanding and empathy. It suggests that possessing the ability to recall one’s past experiences enables individuals in various roles, such as judges, editors, and parents, to better relate to and support others in similar situations. This understanding is crucial for effective judgment and compassion.

Themes

MemoryUnderstandingEmpathyExperienceJudgment

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about empathy in leadership.

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