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If you want to keep a friend, never test him.
John Steinbeck
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Interpretation

What this quote means

To maintain a friendship, avoid putting it to the test, as this can jeopardize the bond.

This quote suggests that true friendship should not be subjected to challenges or tests that may reveal weaknesses or flaws. Steinbeck implies that the essence of friendship lies in trust and acceptance, and by avoiding unnecessary trials, one can ensure the continuity and strength of the relationship.

Themes

FriendshipTrustRelationshipsTestingBonds

In practice

Example use cases

During a toast at a celebration, one might use the quote to emphasize the importance of trust in friendships.

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