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A friend is one who incessantly pays us the compliment of expecting from us all the virtues, and who can appreciate them in us. The friend asks no return but that his friend will religiously accept and wear and not disgrace his apotheosis of him. They cherish each other's hopes. They are kind to each other's dreams.
Henry David Thoreau
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What this quote means

True friends expect the best from each other and value each other's aspirations without seeking anything in return.

In this quote, Thoreau emphasizes the nature of genuine friendship, where friends uplift and inspire each other by recognizing and nurturing the virtues present in one another. This mutual appreciation creates a bond where each friend cherishes the other's dreams and hopes, fostering a supportive environment that transcends mere companionship.

Themes

FriendshipVirtuesSupportDreamsHopes

In practice

Example use cases

During a toast at a wedding to celebrate the bonds of friendship.

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