Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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I do not want a friend who smiles when I smile, who weeps when I weep; for my shadow in the pool can do better than that.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True friendship goes beyond just sharing emotions; it requires deeper understanding and support.
In this quote, Confucius emphasizes that genuine friendship should not merely be a reflection of one's emotions. A shallow friend who only mirrors your feelings fails to offer true companionship; instead, a real friend should provide honest support, even in difficult times, highlighting the need for depth and authenticity in relationships.
Themes
FriendshipGenuineEmotionsSupportAuthenticity
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about the importance of relationships, you can emphasize the depth of true friendship with this quote.
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