A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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Friendship, then, like the other natural loves, is unable to save itself. In reality, because it is spiritual and therefore faces a subtler enemy, it must, even more wholeheartedly than they, invoke the divine protection if it hopes to remain sweet. For consider how narrow its true path is. Is must not become what the people call a "mutual admiration society"; yet if it is not full of mutual admiration, of Appreciative love, it is not Friendship at all.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Friendship requires divine protection and mutual appreciation to thrive amidst challenges.
C. S. Lewis emphasizes the fragile nature of friendship, highlighting that it requires more than just acknowledgment and admiration to thrive. True friendship is a divine connection that needs protection from superficiality and self-interest, and it thrives when both friends appreciate and support each other sincerely.
Themes
FriendshipMutual AdmirationSpiritualAppreciationProtection
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of deep, meaningful friendships.
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