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Love contending with friendship, and self with each generous impulse._x000D_ _x000D_ To and fro in his breast his thoughts were heaving and dashing,_x000D_ _x000D_ As in a foundering ship.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote expresses the internal conflict between love and friendship, and the struggle between self-interest and altruism.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow's quote illustrates the tumultuous emotional state of a person torn between their feelings of love and the bond of friendship. It conveys the idea that these deep connections can lead to turmoil and inner conflict, similar to the chaos experienced on a sinking ship, as one grapples with competing desires and impulses.

Themes

LoveFriendshipConflictEmotionStruggle

In practice

Example use cases

During a speech about the complexities of human relationships, one might quote this to illustrate the emotional turmoil that can arise.

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