Sadness is more or less like a head cold - with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
Barbara KingsolverRead
It's frightening when things you love appear suddenly changed from what you have always known.
Interpretation
Change can be unsettling, especially when it affects the things or people we hold dear.
This quote expresses the emotional turmoil that can arise when the objects of our affection and familiarity undergo unforeseen transformations. It highlights the fear and discomfort that often accompany change, particularly in our relationships and the aspects of life we cherish most, emphasizing the struggle to adapt to new realities that challenge our previous understanding and connection.
In practice
In a speech about family dynamics during personal upheavals.
Sadness is more or less like a head cold - with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
Children can be your heartache. But that doesn't matter, you have to go on and have them . . . it works out.
I'm of a fearsome mind to throw my arms around every living librarian who crosses my path, on behalf of the souls they never knew they saved.
I did it to win love, and to prove myself capable. Not to move mountains. In my opinions, mountains don't move. They only look changed when you look down on them from great height.
Memory is a complicated thing, a relative to truth, but not its twin.
Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It's the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else's pain is as meaningful as your own.
It's very important to know the neighbor next door and the people down the street and the people in another race.
I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense.
If you want to connect with people who are in distress and great grief and scared, you need to do it in a certain way. I move kind of slow. I talk kind of slow. I let them know that I respect them.
Because our ancestors lived in social groups that changed slowly, because they encountered the same people throughout their lives, they could keep almost every social detail they needed to know in their heads.
Betrayal answers betrayal, the mask of love is answered by the disappearance of love.
If you do something for someone else, never remember. If someone does something for you, never forget.
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