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Out of the frying pan into the fire! What is marriage but prostitution to one man instead of many? No different!
Angela Carter
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Marriage can feel like a confined situation, much like moving from one bad situation to another.

Angela Carter's quote compares marriage to a form of prostitution, suggesting that both involve a similar compromise of freedom and autonomy. The metaphor of moving 'out of the frying pan into the fire' highlights the idea that individuals may leave one undesirable situation only to step into another that could be equally or more detrimental, emphasizing the potential pitfalls of romantic commitments and societal expectations surrounding marriage.

Themes

MarriageProstitutionRelationshipsFreedomCommitment

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about modern relationships, one might quote Angela Carter to illustrate the complexities of marriage.

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