...not all encounters with the world affect the mind equally. Studies have demonstrated that if the brain appraises an event as "meaningful," it will be more likely to be recalled in the future.
Daniel J. SiegelRead
For "full" emotional communication, one person needs to allow his state of mind to be influenced by that of the other.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Emotional communication requires mutual openness and influence between individuals.
The quote by Daniel J. Siegel emphasizes the importance of emotional attunement in relationships. For effective communication, it is crucial that one person is willing to be affected by the emotions and state of mind of the other, fostering a deeper connection and understanding between them.
Themes
EmotionalCommunicationRelationshipsInfluenceUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
During a relationship seminar, a speaker might use this quote to illustrate the importance of emotional connection.
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