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We need a fundamental change of mindset with regards to the way we speak and behave about sex and sexuality. Boys and men have a particularly critical role in this regard, changing the chauvinist and demeaning ways sexuality and women were traditionally dealt with in both our actions and speaking.
Nelson Mandela
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the need for a shift in how society perceives and discusses sex and sexuality, particularly involving men.

Nelson Mandela highlights the urgent need for a transformation in attitudes towards sex and sexuality, urging boys and men to take responsibility for dismantling long-standing chauvinistic and derogatory views. He asserts that changing behaviors and language around these topics is crucial for fostering respect and equality, particularly for women.

Themes

MindsetChangeSexSexualityWomenMenBehavior

In practice

Example use cases

During a panel discussion on gender equality, this quote can be used to highlight the importance of male engagement in addressing sexism.

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