The world begins anew with every birth, my father used to say. He forgot to say, with every death it ends. Or did not think he needed to. Because for a goodly part of his life he worked in a graveyard.
It is funny, but it strikes me that a person without anecdotes that they nurse while they live, and that survive them, are more likely to be utterly lost not only to history but the family following them. Of course this is the fate of most souls, reducing entire lives, no matter how vivid and wonderful, to those sad black names on withering family trees, with half a date dangling after and a question mark.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the importance of personal stories and anecdotes in preserving one's legacy and identity.
Sebastian Barry emphasizes the significance of personal anecdotes in shaping identity and memory. He suggests that without these stories, individuals risk fading into obscurity, reducing their lives to mere names on family trees, devoid of the rich experiences and narratives that give meaning and context to existence. This underscores how personal history and familial stories are essential for understanding one's place in both history and future generations.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a family reunion to highlight the importance of sharing stories.
More from Sebastian Barry
All quotes →What is the sound of an eighty-nine-year-old heart breaking?
Similar quotes
All voting is a sort of gaming, like checkers or backgammon, with a slight moral tinge to it, a playing with right and wrong.
Even the weakest and most vulnerable, the sick, the old, the unborn and the poor, are masterpieces of God's creation, made in his own image, destined to live for ever, and deserving of the utmost reverence and respect.
If they [Plato and Aristotle] wrote about politics it was as if to lay down rules for a madhouse. And if they pretended to treat it as something really important it was because they knew that the madmen they were talking to believed themselves to be kings and emperors. They humored these beliefs in order to calm down their madness with as little harm as possible.
Islam is itself destiny and will not suffer destiny.
Would you require a wretched being, whose life is slowly wasting under a lingering disease, to despatch himself at once by the stroke of a dagger? Does not the very disorder which consumes his strength deprive him of the courage to effect his deliverance?
The Vedas give information on various subjects. They have come together and form one book. And in later times, when other subjects were separated from religion - when astronomy and astrology were taken out of religion - these subjects, being connected with the Vedas and being ancient, were considered very holy.