Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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The gentleman is calm and at ease. The gentleman is dignified but not proud; the small man is proud but not dignified.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote distinguishes the characteristics of a true gentleman from those of a small-minded person.
Confucius emphasizes the importance of demeanor and attitude in distinguishing a true gentleman from someone lacking dignity. A gentleman embodies calmness and dignity without arrogance, while those who are small-minded may exhibit pride but lack true respect and honor.
Themes
GentlemanDignityPrideCalmnessCharacter
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about leadership qualities.
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