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A gentleman is someone who does not what he wants to do, but what he should do.
Haruki Murakami
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Interpretation

What this quote means

A true gentleman prioritizes duty and morality over personal desires.

This quote by Haruki Murakami emphasizes the distinction between acting on personal desires and adhering to moral obligations. A gentleman, in this context, is characterized by his commitment to do what is right, regardless of his own wishes, highlighting a sense of responsibility and ethical conduct in one's actions.

Themes

GentlemanMoralityResponsibilityEthicsConduct

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about leadership, one might quote this to emphasize ethical responsibility.

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