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The goal of our life should not be to find joy in marriage, but to bring more love and truth into the world.
Leo Tolstoy
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Our purpose in life should extend beyond personal happiness to contribute positively to the world.

In this quote, Tolstoy emphasizes that merely seeking joy through personal relationships, such as marriage, is not the ultimate aim. Instead, he suggests that our focus should be on spreading love and truth, which can lead to a more meaningful and impactful existence for both ourselves and those around us.

Themes

LoveTruthLifeMarriagePurpose

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding toast, one might quote Tolstoy to remind the couple of their greater mission together.

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