Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
To know it is not as good as to love it, and to love it is not as good as to take delight in it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Understanding something is less significant than loving it, while loving it is less significant than truly taking joy in it.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the progression from knowledge to love to delight. It suggests that mere understanding of a concept or an entity is the first step, but it pales in comparison to the deeper connection of love, which in turn is eclipsed by the ultimate experience of deriving joy and delight from it. It advocates for an emotional engagement that surpasses intellectual comprehension or even affection.
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Example use cases
During a motivational speech about personal growth, one might say this quote to emphasize the importance of emotional engagement in life.
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