Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
Baltasar GracianRead
It is good to vary in order that you may frustrate the curious, especially those who envy you.
Interpretation
Embracing variability can protect you from those who might envy your success.
This quote emphasizes the importance of being unpredictable in your actions or choices as a means of safeguarding oneself from the jealousy of others. By varying your approaches and maintaining a level of intrigue, you can keep those who wish to undermine you at bay, especially if they harbor envious feelings towards your achievements or circumstances.
In practice
In a motivational speech, one could use this quote to encourage individuals to embrace their uniqueness.
Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
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