Alas, how easily things go wrong! A sigh too much, a kiss too long And there follows a mist and a weeping rain And life is never the same again
What a good thing, for instance, it was that one princess should sleep for a hundred years! Was she not saved from all the plague of young men who were not worthy of her? And did not she come awake exactly at the right moment when the right prince kissed her? For my part, I cannot help wishing a good many girls would sleep till just the same fate overtook them. It would be happier for them, and more agreeable to their friends.
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What this quote means
The quote suggests that waiting for the right partner can be more beneficial than rushing into relationships with unworthy suitors.
George Macdonald's quote reflects a sentiment about the importance of timing and discernment in relationships. The princess's deep slumber can be interpreted as a metaphor for patience, allowing her to avoid unsatisfactory encounters and ultimately awaken to a meaningful relationship with a deserving partner. This notion highlights the value of waiting for the right moment and underscores the idea that not all relationships are worth engaging in.
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Sharing this quote during a discussion on healthy relationships and the importance of waiting for the right partner.
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When I can no more stir my soul to move, and life is but the ashes of a fire; when I can but remember that my heart once used to live and love, long and aspire- O, be thou then the first, the one thou art; be thou the calling, before all answering love, and in me wake hope, fear, boundless desire.
But words are vain; reject them all— They utter but a feeble part: Hear thou the depths from which they call, The voiceless longing of my heart.
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