Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
Anne LamottRead
I wish grace and healing were more abracadabra kind of things. Also, that delicate silver bells would ring to announce grace's arrival. But no, it's clog and slog and scootch, on the floor, in the silence, in the dark.
Interpretation
Grace and healing are not magical or instantaneous but require effort and perseverance.
In this quote, Anne Lamott reflects on the often difficult and unglamorous journey toward grace and healing. Rather than depicting these experiences as quick or effortless, she highlights the reality that they involve struggle, patience, and a journey through silence and darkness, emphasizing that growth and healing are gradual processes that demand our engagement and resilience.
In practice
During a self-help workshop, this quote can be used to discuss the importance of acknowledging the struggle in personal growth.
Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
Or you might shout at the top of your lungs or whisper into your sleeve, "I hate you, God." That is a prayer too, because it is real, it is truth, and maybe it is the first sincere thought you've had in months.
Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whether you're going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over people and circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are.
It is hard to remember that you are a cherished spiritual being when you're burping up apple fritters and Cheetos.
Gorgeous, amazing things come into our lives when we are paying attention: mangoes, grandnieces, Bach, ponds. This happens more often when we have as little expectation as possible. If you say, "Well, that's pretty much what I thought I'd see," you are in trouble. At that point you have to ask yourself why you are even here. [...] Astonishing material and revelation appear in our lives all the time. Let it be. Unto us, so much is given. We just have to be open for business.
...because when people have seen you at their worst, you don't have to put on the mask as much.
Every true hustler knows that you cannot hustle forever. You will go to jail eventually.
To be great, be whole; Exclude nothing. Be whole in everything.
Does anybody think these people were just sitting around drinking tea?
It is easier to make our wishes conform to our means than to make our means conform to our wishes.
From time to time there appear on the face of the earth men of rare and consummate excellence, who dazzle us by their virtue, and whose outstanding qualities shed a stupendous light. Like those extraordinary stars of whose origins we are ignorant, and of whose fate, once they have vanished, we know even less, such men have neither forebears nor descendants: they are the whole of their race.
Now, five years is nothing in a man's life except when he is very young and very old... - Wang Lung
Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.