Endurance is nobler than strength, and patience than beauty.
In great countries, children are always trying to remain children, and the parents want to make them into adults. In vile countries, the children are always wanting to be adults and the parents want to keep them children.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote addresses the contrasting desires of children and parents in different societal contexts regarding maturity and childhood.
John Ruskin's quote reflects on the dynamics between children and parents in various cultural settings. In prosperous or 'great' societies, children strive to retain their innocence and the joys of youth, while parents are eager to prepare them for adulthood. Conversely, in less fortunate or 'vile' societies, children are often eager to grow up and take on adult responsibilities, while parents may wish to shield them from the harsh realities of life. This perspective highlights how societal conditions influence the perceptions of childhood and adulthood.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting workshop, you could use this quote to illustrate the pressures parents face in different cultures.
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To be able to ask a question clearly is two-thirds of the way to getting it answered.
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