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It takes a great deal of character strength to apologize quickly out of one's heart rather than out of pity. A person must possess himself and have a deep sense of security in fundamental principles and values in order to genuinely apologize.
Stephen Covey
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Interpretation

What this quote means

A true apology comes from a place of genuine humility and character, not just courtesy.

Stephen Covey emphasizes that a sincere apology requires inner strength and a strong sense of personal integrity. Rather than simply apologizing out of obligation or pity, it reflects an individual’s character to truly acknowledge their wrongdoing and make amends from a place of genuine remorse.

Themes

ApologyCharacterIntegrityHumilityStrength

In practice

Example use cases

During a conflict resolution workshop, I shared this quote to highlight the importance of sincere apologies.

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