Insecurity twists meanings and poisons trust. In a closely beleaguered city every sentry is a potential traitor.
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Grief and disappointment are like hate: they make men ugly with self-pity and bitterness. And how selfish they make us too.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Grief and disappointment can lead to self-pity and bitterness, resulting in a negative impact on one's character.
Graham Greene's quote suggests that feelings of grief and disappointment can transform individuals by fostering negative emotions such as self-pity and bitterness. These emotions not only affect interpersonal relationships but also lead to a form of selfishness, as one becomes consumed by their own suffering rather than considering the feelings of others.
Themes
GriefDisappointmentSelf-PityBitternessSelfishness
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be a reminder during a speech about the importance of overcoming challenges and negativity.
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