Our happiness is completely and utterly intertwined with other people: family and friends and neighbors and the woman you hardly notice who cleans your office. Happiness is not a noun or verb. It's a conjunction. Connective tissue.
Eric WeinerRead
[Happiness is] a ghost, it’s a shadow. You can’t really chase it. It’s a by-product, a very pleasant side effect to a life lived well.
Interpretation
Happiness cannot be pursued directly; it is a by-product of living a fulfilling life.
In this quote, Eric Weiner expresses the idea that happiness is not something one can actively chase or attain directly. Instead, it emerges as a natural consequence of engaging in meaningful actions and living well, suggesting that the focus should be on the quality of life and experiences rather than the pursuit of happiness itself.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a seminar about personal development.
Our happiness is completely and utterly intertwined with other people: family and friends and neighbors and the woman you hardly notice who cleans your office. Happiness is not a noun or verb. It's a conjunction. Connective tissue.
I've spent most of my life trying to think my way to happiness, and my failure to achieve that goal only proves, in my mind, that I am not a good enough thinker. It never occurred to me that the source of my unhappiness is not flawed thinking but thinking itself.
All the money in the world doesn't mean a thing if you don't have time to enjoy it.
All that lives is striving for happiness; yet a thousand and one pains and fears attend upon every pleasure which man seeks through the ignorance of exclusiveness.
For everything bad, there's a million really exciting things, whether it's someone puts out a really great book, there's a new movie, there's a new detective, the sky is unbelievably golden, or you have the best cup of coffee you ever had in your life.
No money is better spent than what is laid out for domestic satisfaction.
Be happy, noble heart, be blessed for all the good thou hast done and wilt do hereafter, and let my gratitude remain in obscurity like your good deeds.
[I]t is well to have as many holds upon happiness as possible.
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