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I cared more about your happiness than your knowing the truth, more for your peace of mind than my plan, more for your life than the lives that might be lost if the plan failed. In other words I acted exactly as Voldemort expects we fools who love to act.
J. K. Rowling
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The speaker prioritizes the well-being and happiness of others over harsh truths or personal plans.

This quote reflects the profound dilemma faced by individuals who love deeply: the struggle between honesty and protectiveness. The speaker indicates that their choice to shield someone from the truth was driven by love and concern for their happiness and peace of mind, even at the expense of larger consequences. It highlights the conflict between the desire to act with integrity and the instinct to care for others' emotional well-being, suggesting that love sometimes leads us to make difficult and self-sacrificing decisions.

Themes

HappinessTruthLoveSacrificeDilemma

In practice

Example use cases

In a heartfelt speech about prioritizing loved ones, one might include this quote to emphasize the importance of caring over honesty.

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