They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
Edith WhartonRead
If only we'd stop trying to be happy we'd have a pretty good time.
Interpretation
Pursuing happiness directly can often lead to disappointment, while accepting life as it is can lead to contentment.
Edith Wharton's quote suggests that the relentless pursuit of happiness can distract us from enjoying the present moment. By letting go of the pressure to constantly seek happiness, we may find that we can appreciate and enjoy life's simple pleasures, leading to a more fulfilling experience.
In practice
In a motivational speech about dealing with stress and expectations.
They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
They seemed to come suddenly upon happiness as if they had surprised a butterfly in the winter woods
Set wide the window. Let me drink the day.
And I wonder, among all the tangles of this mortal coil, which one contains tighter knots to undo, & consequently suggests more tugging, & pain, & diversified elements of misery, than the marriage tie.
As he paid the hansom and followed his wife's long train into the house he took refuge in the comforting platitude that the first six months were always the most difficult in marriage. 'After that I suppose we shall have pretty nearly finished rubbing off each otherβs angles,' he reflected; but the worst of it was that May's pressure was already bearing on the very angles whose sharpness he most wanted to keep
There are two ways to spread happiness; either be the light who shines it or be the mirror who reflects it.
The joy of losing consists in this: Where there are no expectations, there is no disappointment.
The summit of pleasure is the elimination of all that gives pain.
Happiness is neither virtue nor pleasure nor this thing nor that but simply growth, We are happy when we are growing.
I was the happiest guy in the world when I was on the ice. You're being paid to play a game! That's pretty special.
We only need so much to survive, but this world we live in tells us we need more stuff to be happy. We're inundated with our televisions, the Internet and advertising that says in order to be happy you have to have these things. When you say, 'Gimme, gimme, gimme,' you will always be in short supply.
All you have to do is think one happy thought, and you'll fly like me.
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