Art begins when a man, with a purpose of communicating to other people a feeling he once experienced, calls it up again within himself and expresses it by certain external signs.
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it is hard for anyone who is dissatisfied not to blame some one else, and especially the person nearest of all to him, for the ground of his dissatisfaction.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People tend to blame others for their dissatisfaction, especially those closest to them.
In this quote, Leo Tolstoy highlights a common human tendency to shift blame onto others when we are unhappy or dissatisfied with our circumstances. Rather than reflecting on our own feelings or actions, we often look to those around us, particularly those we are closest to, as the source of our discontent, which can lead to resentment and misunderstandings in relationships.
Themes
BlameDissatisfactionRelationshipsReflectionHuman Nature
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal growth at a workshop.
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