Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
Gautama BuddhaRead
Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to will answer thee in the same way. Angry speech is painful: blows for blows will touch thee.
Interpretation
Treat others with kindness, as harsh words lead to a cycle of negativity.
This quote by Gautama Buddha emphasizes the importance of speaking kindly to others. It highlights how negative or harsh speech not only affects those we speak to, but also comes back to us in a similar manner, causing pain and conflict. The quote serves as a reminder that our words have power, influencing both our relationships and our emotional well-being.
In practice
In a workshop on conflict resolution, this quote can emphasize the importance of tone in communication.
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