To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
Hate the sin and not the sinner' is a precept which, though easy enough to understand, is rarely practiced, and that is why the poison of hatred spreads in the world.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of separating one's actions from their identity, promoting love and understanding rather than hatred.
Mahatma Gandhi's quote highlights the common struggle of humanity to distinguish between a person's negative actions and the person themselves. While it is straightforward to say we should hate harmful behaviors or 'sins,' practicing this precept is challenging, leading to widespread hatred that poisons society. By advocating for love towards individuals despite their wrongdoings, Gandhi encourages a more compassionate and understanding approach to addressing moral issues.
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Example use cases
In a discussion about the importance of forgiveness in a community meeting.
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