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The heart breaks and breaks and lives by breaking it is necessary to go through dark and deeper dark and not to turn
Stanley Kunitz
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote speaks to the inevitability of pain and suffering as part of the human experience.

Stanley Kunitz reflects on the nature of the heart, suggesting that it endures through repeated heartbreaks, which are essential for personal growth and resilience. Emphasizing the importance of facing darkness, he asserts that experiencing deeper struggles ultimately contributes to the richness of life and the strength required to live fully.

Themes

HeartbreakResilienceGrowthDarknessLife

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about overcoming challenges.

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