The Witch's Life" When I was a child there was an old woman in our neighborhood whom we called The Witch. All day she peered from her second story window from behind the wrinkled curtains and sometimes she would open the window and yell: Get out of my life! She had hair like kelp and a voice like a boulder. I think of her sometimes now and wonder if I am becoming her.
My heart is on a budget._x000D_ It keeps me on the brink.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that the speaker is cautious about their emotional investments, limiting their openness to love.
Anne Sexton's quote reflects the idea that love requires careful consideration and emotional management. By stating 'My heart is on a budget,' she implies that her capacity to love is restricted, emphasizing the fragility and risk associated with deeply caring for others. The image of being 'on the brink' suggests that while she has the potential for profound feelings, there is also a constant tension and fear of overextending herself emotionally, leading to potential hurt.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a romantic relationship, during an open discussion about emotional availability, one might use this quote to express caution.
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