To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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I think it is the height of ignorance to believe that the sexual act is an independent function necessary like sleeping or eating. Seeing, therefore, that I did not desire more children, I began to strive after self-control. There was endless difficulty in the task.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of self-control over blindly following natural instincts.
Mahatma Gandhi reflects on the misconception that sexual desires are purely biological needs akin to eating or sleeping. He advocates for the necessity of self-control and recognition of personal desires, especially in the context of parenting and responsibility, suggesting that understanding and managing one's impulses is crucial for personal growth and meaningful living.
Themes
Self-ControlIgnoranceDesiresParentingResponsibility
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal growth during a workshop.
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