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Herman slipped his hand into mine, and I thought, An average of seventy-four species become extinct every day, which was one good reason but not the only one to hold someone's hand, and the next thing that happened was we kissed each other, and I found I knew how, and I felt happy and sad in equal parts, because I knew that I was falling in love, but it wasn't with him.
Nicole Krauss
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote explores the complexity of emotions in a moment of connection, juxtaposing love with the sadness of loss.

In this quote, the author reflects on a poignant moment of intimacy that is overshadowed by the knowledge of loss and extinction. The act of holding hands and sharing a kiss symbolizes the beauty of love, while the reference to species extinction evokes a sense of sadness and transience, illustrating how love often coexists with bittersweet emotions, particularly when it isn't fully reciprocated or when one realizes that their feelings are complicated.

Themes

LoveEmotionsIntimacyBittersweetLoss

In practice

Example use cases

During a speech about the importance of cherishing connections, this quote can illustrate the complexity of emotions we experience.

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