All of us are made up of the stories that we listen to, the ones we disagree with and the ones that we agree with.
Stanley CrouchRead
The high point of civilization is that you can hate me and I can hate you but we develop an etiquette that allows us to deal with each other because if we acted solely upon our impulse we'd probably go to war.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Civilization enables us to manage our negative feelings towards one another through established social norms.
Stanley Crouch highlights the importance of societal etiquette in maintaining peace between individuals who may harbor negative emotions towards each other. Without the constraints of civility, these personal hostilities could escalate into conflict, emphasizing that the ability to coexist despite our differences is a hallmark of advanced civilization.
Themes
CivilizationHateEtiquetteImpulseWar
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a debate about the importance of social norms in conflict resolution.
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