The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
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The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Honoring the deceased involves appreciating their contributions rather than solely mourning their loss.
This quote by Thornton Wilder emphasizes that the best way to remember and pay tribute to those who have passed away is not through sorrow and grief, but through gratitude for the positive impact they had during their lives. It suggests that reflecting on the memories and the legacy they left behind can provide a more meaningful way to honor them.
Themes
TributeGriefGratitudeMemoryAppreciation
In practice
Example use cases
During a memorial service, one might share this quote to inspire others to focus on the positive memories of the deceased.
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I want you to try and remember what it was like to have been very young. And particularly the days when you were first in love; when you were like a person sleepwalking, and you didn’t quite see the street you were in, and didn’t quite hear everything that was said to you. You’re just a little bit crazy. Will you remember that, please?
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