They think that intelligence is about noticing things are relevant (detecting patterns); in a complex world, intelligence consists in ignoring things that are irrelevant (avoiding false patterns)
Nassim Nicholas TalebRead
I wanted to lie hour after hour on a couch, pouring out the dark, secret places of my heart--do this feeling that over my shoulder sat humanity and wisdom and generosity, a munificent heart--do this until that incredibly lovely day when the great man would say to me, his voice grave and dramatic with discovery: "This is you, Exley. Rise and go back into the world a whole man.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a deep yearning for understanding and validation, emphasizing the journey of self-discovery and healing.
In this quote, Frederick Exley articulates a profound desire for reflection and sharing one's innermost thoughts and struggles while seeking affirmation from a figure of significance. This desire to unburden oneself and to be recognized as whole speaks to the universal human experience of wanting to connect with others and attain a sense of completeness.
In practice
Sharing this quote during a mental health awareness seminar to emphasize the importance of expressing one's feelings.
They think that intelligence is about noticing things are relevant (detecting patterns); in a complex world, intelligence consists in ignoring things that are irrelevant (avoiding false patterns)
When every autumn people said it could not last through the winter, and when every spring there was still no end in sight, only the hope that out of it all some good would accrue to mankind kept men and nations fighting. When at last it was over, the war had many diverse results and one dominant one transcending all others: disillusion.
He who never puts his trust in any man will never be deceived.
You learn things in adversity that you would never have discovered without trouble. There is always a seed of hope.
It is the function of perfection to make one know one's imperfection.
It seems to me that everyone on this planet whom I know or have worked with is suffering from self-hatred and guilt to one degree or another. The more self-hatred and guilt we have, the less our lives work. The less self-hatred and guilt we have, the better our lives work, on all levels.
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