You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I don't want to hurt myself. I want to stop hurting.
Interpretation
The quote expresses a desire to cease suffering rather than inflict harm on oneself.
David Foster Wallace highlights a fundamental human wish to overcome pain and seek an end to suffering, emphasizing that the true goal is not self-harm but healing. This sentiment resonates deeply with those who may struggle with emotional turmoil, urging introspection and the pursuit of relief and understanding rather than destructive behaviors.
In practice
In a mental health seminar discussing coping mechanisms.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience.
It is not easy to be a pioneer but oh, it is fascinating! I would not trade one moment, even the worst moment, for all the riches in the world.
We are determined that before the sun sets on this terrible struggle, Our Flag will be recognized throughout the World as a symbol of Freedom on the one hand and of overwhelming force on the other.
That's been the story of my life - obstacles: trying to figure a way over them, around them, under them; sometimes you have to go straight through them.
To be a follower of the Crucified means, sooner or later, a personal encounter with the cross. And the cross always entails loss.
For heaven's sake, when you see the enemy attacking, you pick up the pitchfork, and you enlist everybody you see. You don't stand around arguing about who's responsible, or who's going to pay.
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