Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
There is an idea abroad among moral people that they should make their neighbors good. One person I have to make good: Myself. But my duty to my neighbor is much more nearly expressed by saying that I have to make him happy if I may.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of focusing on self-improvement while promoting happiness in others.
Robert Louis Stevenson highlights the notion that while we might feel a moral obligation to improve our neighbors, our primary responsibility lies in bettering ourselves. However, our interaction with others should aim at bringing happiness rather than enforcing moralistic judgments, suggesting that personal happiness can foster positive relationships and communal wellbeing.
Themes
Self-ImprovementHappinessRelationshipsMoral ObligationNeighbors
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a speech about community service to emphasize the balance between personal growth and contributing to others' happiness.
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