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This idea of doing it all is the enemy of equality, not the path to do it. It's impossible to do two full-time jobs, and an impossible definition of success is just another way of making women feel like failures... Any definition of success has to include social policies that honor families and men who raise babies as much as women do.
Gloria Steinem
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What this quote means

Success should include equal recognition for both men and women in family roles, rather than burdening them with unrealistic expectations.

In this quote, Gloria Steinem critiques the societal expectation for women to balance multiple full-time roles while maintaining traditional family responsibilities. She argues that this unrealistic standard of success primarily serves to undermine women's capabilities and contributions, framing it as a call for social policies that recognize and support both men and women equally in raising families and achieving professional success.

Themes

EqualitySuccessFamiliesWomenMen

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Example use cases

This quote can be used in a speech advocating for workplace reforms to support parents.

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