A culture fixation on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty but an obsession about female obedience. Dieting is the most potent political sedative in women’s history; a quietly mad population is a tractable one.
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The idea that women are innately gentle is a fantasy, and a historically recent one. Kali, the Hindu goddess of destruction, is depicted as wreathed in male human skulls; the cruel entertainments of the Romans drew audiences as female as they were male; Boudicca led her British troops bloodily into battle.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote critiques the stereotype of women's innate gentleness by highlighting historical examples of female strength and violence.
Naomi Wolf challenges the perception that women are naturally gentle or nurturing by referencing powerful female figures from history, such as the goddess Kali and warrior Boudicca, who embody strength and ferocity. She suggests that the belief in women's inherent gentleness is a modern fantasy, ignoring the complexities and diverse roles women have played throughout history, including those that are assertive and violent.
Themes
WomenStrengthViolenceHistoryGoddessFeminism
In practice
Example use cases
In a seminar on women's studies, this quote can be used to challenge stereotypes about female behavior.
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