But let us not forget that cities are like human beings. They are born, they go through childhood and adolescence, they grow old, and eventually they die
Elif SafakRead
What i’m saying is, my friends, one ought to be able to let go. If a path does not please us, instead of insisting on going that specific way, of making our selfishness the guide, we ought to forsake. The books we cannot write, the films we cannot shoot, the projects we cannot develop, the jobs we cannot pursue and the people who no longer love us. Being able to let go, at times, is the most beautiful of all!
Interpretation
What this quote means
Letting go of things that no longer serve us can lead to personal growth and happiness.
This quote emphasizes the importance of being able to release attachments to paths, projects, and relationships that no longer bring us joy or fulfillment. Elif Safak suggests that by recognizing when something is not beneficial and choosing to let go, we allow ourselves to embrace new opportunities and experiences, which ultimately leads to personal liberation and beauty in life.
Themes
Let GoChangeAttachmentsGrowthFreedom
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech about resilience and personal growth.
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