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You said, 'I'm going to leave him because my love for you makes any other life a lie.' I've hidden these words in the lining of my coat. I take them out like a jewel thief when no-one's watching. They haven't faded. Nothing about you has faded. You are still the colour of my blood. You are my blood. When I look in the mirror it's not my own face I see. Your body is twice. Once you once me. Can I be sure which is which?
Jeanette Winterson
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote expresses deep, intertwined love that challenges individual identity and highlights emotional dependency.

Jeanette Winterson's quote delves into the complexities of love and how it can eclipse one's sense of self. The speaker confesses that their love for another has made all other relationships feel dishonest, demonstrating a profound connection that merges their identities. This intense bond causes them to question their own existence, suggesting that love can profoundly shape one's identity and experience of reality.

Themes

LoveIdentityConnectionEmotionDependence

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding speech, when discussing the depths of romantic love.

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