Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
Douglas CouplandRead
I'm not patient - and I'm getting more impatient as I get older - but I am disciplined about writing, and I want that on my tombstone: 'He wasn't patient, but he was disciplined.'
Interpretation
Discipline can outweigh impatience in an individual's pursuit of goals.
In this quote, Douglas Coupland reflects on the notion that while impatience may grow with age, the quality of discipline remains a vital component of success and productivity. He emphasizes that being disciplined in his writing is of paramount importance to him, to the point where he desires this trait to be remembered after his death.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a writers' workshop to inspire discipline in the writing process.
Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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You've seen what you've seen; you've felt what you've felt. Ideology is for people who don't trust their own experiences and perceptions of the world.
When you assume negative intent, you're angry. If you take away that anger and assume positive intent, you will be amazed. Your emotional quotient goes up because you are no longer almost random in your response.
Sometimes you need to get hit in the head to realize that you're in a fight.
God's grace doesn't always come in comfortable forms. But it's still grace, and it's still evidence that He loves us.
If the Lord should give you power to raise the dead, He would give much less than He does when he bestows suffering. By miracles you would make yourself debtor to Him, while by suffering He may become debtor to you. And even if sufferings had no other reward than being able to bear something for that God who loves you, is not this a great reward and a sufficient remuneration? Whoever loves, understands what I say.
It takes people a long time to learn the difference between talent and genius, especially ambitious young men and women.
I’m thirty,” I said. “I’m five years too old to lie to myself and call it honor
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