Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
Douglas CouplandRead
I'm not patient - and I'm getting more impatient as I get older - but I am disciplined about writing, and I want that on my tombstone: 'He wasn't patient, but he was disciplined.'
Interpretation
Discipline can outweigh impatience in an individual's pursuit of goals.
In this quote, Douglas Coupland reflects on the notion that while impatience may grow with age, the quality of discipline remains a vital component of success and productivity. He emphasizes that being disciplined in his writing is of paramount importance to him, to the point where he desires this trait to be remembered after his death.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a writers' workshop to inspire discipline in the writing process.
Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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