You are 27 or 28 right? It is very tough to live at that age. When nothing is sure. I have sympathy with you.
Haruki MurakamiRead
I'm in no position to hand down any advice," he said, "but there's a rule I follow when I don't know what to do." "A rule?" "If you have to choose between something that has form and something that doesn't, go for the one without form. That's my rule. Whenever I run into a wall I follow that rule, and it always works out. Even if it's hard going at the time.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Choose the formless option when facing tough decisions, as it often leads to better outcomes.
In this quote, Haruki Murakami emphasizes the value of embracing uncertainty and formlessness in decision-making. He suggests that when confronted with difficult choices, opting for the unknown or less concrete option can lead to more favorable results, even if the process feels challenging. This approach encourages flexibility and intuition rather than strictly adhering to rigid structures.
Themes
DecisionFormlessUncertaintyFlexibilityWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech about embracing change.
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